Should I?

Should I be bothered by the ex-wife informing the father of his son's Kindergarten orientation. Saying several times, in one sentence, that the parents only orientation is on Tuesday, just for parents. I soooo wanted to call the house and remind the Mr. to take his birth certificate as well as his son's because they may be conducting DNA testing at the door upon arrival. Maybe she doesn't know what she says or how she says it.

Should I be bothered by the ex-wife, son and his father going to breakfast the morning of the first day of Kindergarten? Maybe I get caught up on the words- I'm taking them out to breakfast on Tuesday. I asked Mr. are you taking my son and I out for breakfast on his first day of school? We'll see about that.

Should I be bothered by his friend's female roommate who keeps calling because her air conditioner is blowing out hot air? I said, instead of going other there AGAIN, I'll mail her our phonebook with a bookmark in section A for air conditioning and she can call a professional! Meanwhile, our AC in the house and both of our cars is broken. Maybe a nice case of heat stroke will get his attention!

Should I be bothered that his not-quite-moved-out roommate calls frequently to ask what arrived in the mail that day? He won't have his mail forwarded, instead he wants us to open, read, forward his mail for him. Deep breath….

I have a feeling that this weekends trip with his friends is going to be a bit of an anxiety attack waiting to happen for me. The Mr. doesn't talk to me and thinks his friend should go back with his ex-wife and the Mrs. is said to be two-faced and can't be trusted. There will be 5 kids under the age of 8, heat, sand and a boat involved. Sometimes, I think I make things out to be more than they are and it just makes things harder on myself. I want to drive separately, in case I need to bail, but that wouldn't look good on my part. Our original plans were to go to a county fair. It's a tradition in my family to attend atleast one fair a year. I haven't had that chance this year and I'm craving fair food like it's nobody's business! I guess I won't get to indulge this year : (